Here is a picture of a gentleman who is convinced that one trip is much better than four! Do you feel a little like this guy? Carrying the weight of the world on your back?
Trying to be supermom, superdad, superfriend, superemployee…
The fact is: This never really works! There are consequences. You will suffer from problems like health issues. You will sacrifice other things like time with your loved ones. And many other things that are very important.
So why do we do it? Why do we take on so much stuff ourselves? Why can’t we give it up?
Generally its plain and simple pride and control. We can’t let someone else take care of things. Can’t give it up. Your convinced that you are the only one that can do it right. Can’t take our hands off the wheel and let go. You feel like disaster will happen if you don’t steer things in the right direction.
The fact is: It’s your problem. Don’t blame it on everyone else. You are the only one that can fix this.
Say no sometime. Off-load some stuff. Learn to delegate. Let others take over. Let things run by themselves. It will be ok. The world will keep spinning. Your life will be better. You’ll see!
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This picture was taken on the rear patio of the old Officer’s Club at Deer Point (Now called the Bayview Restaurant) at Naval Station Guantanamo Bay, Cuba. As I looked over the bay at the sunset and snapped this photo, I realized that thousands of servicemen and women have stood at this same exact spot looking over the bay and thinking about there loved ones who were far, far away. There are few places that you could be that are more isolating than Guantanamo Bay, Cuba.
My visit to the base was a real eye opener for me. I was overcome with the realities of what it must be like to be a military family. These great Americans sacrifice a portion of themselves and share their families interests, to serve our country. I think we tend to focus on the danger of loosing their lives and miss that fact that they are really giving up their lives as they live and serve the country. They are far away from home and stuck on a base isolated from the people and the things that they love and cherish. I was reawakened to this sacrifice made by millions of men and women during the history of the United States.
These men and women who sacrifice to serve our country are truly the greatest Americans!
So what do your think? Are you from a military family? Have you experienced the sacrifice first hand? Have you stood in this same spot before? Click on “leave a comment” and tell me what you think! Click on “like” if your agree with me!
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